Adastra wrote:
OK, that's a perfectly dignified and well-expressed opinion, and if I can't get you to read even the summarised version of those links then I'm sure I won't be able to change your mind, so instead let me just briefly summarise today's events, lest you think it was nothing but angry protests:
- It was the 20th anniversary of the tragedy, which meant it got more media exposure than previous years.
- For the same reason, many more people attended the ceremony than usual, so it was more likely that Liverpool fans who weren't directly related to the victims would be in attendance (and therefore more likely to be slightly confrontational, as opposed to close family members who would be more familiar with the "traditions" of the memorial and keep their opinions to themselves for this one day a year).
- For some inexplicable reason, the Culture Secretary was invited to speak (presumably someone thought because he was a Scouser, he would be somehow excused for being an MP and therefore the only person present who might - in the opinion of the crowd - be able to order a new inquiry). This caused anger amongst sections of the crowd and momentarily turned what's usually a sober memorial into a brief protest. Once that died down, the rest of the memorial was quiet and not as angry as you suggest.
Believe it or not I must have watched countless documentaries on the subject.. I'm aware there were certain parties who didn't do what they should have, and loads that did what they shouldn't have.. Without sounding nasty it's been done to death over the years. Nothing has really changed. It's absolutely terrible what happened (as is the Bradford fire) and by now should have been put to bed as one of those disasters. I mean, that's basically what it was, a complete disaster.
I'm not from the north of the UK and never was. Born and raised in London. However, I don't have any predjudice toward any one in this world as it would go against everything I believe in (basically because I'm mentally ill and have spent my entire life being bullied and judged).
Thanks for the 'reality' of what happened today. I really appreciate that. I still find it upsetting that
anyone could feel any anger on a day such as today. It's a sad day for British history, whether you're a football fan or not. I'm not saying that people should not be angry at what happened. However, what did upset me today was seeing people angry
twenty years after it happened.
I know the anger people are feeling. My father died when I was seven and I was angry for years. However, here I am 27 years later and no matter who I have tried to blame in the past (myself, god, the world, bad diets, bad hearts etc) I know that it was just unavoidable. That's something I have learned in 27 years and the same should be applied to what happened back in 1989.
I remember seeing it live on the T.V. I remember seeing it all over the news time and time again, I remember the feeling of serious humanity in those images and newscasts. However, it doesn't matter how many documentaries I have watched, or who each one has blamed it on the fact is now that it's done.
When I go and visit my father's grave I do not feel anger any more. I do not try and blame it on any factor. It was out of my control and it was unavoidable in the same way that what happened in '89 was.
I just found it incredibly disrespectful that anyone could start mouthing off and trying to blame it on something/someone twenty years after the fact. Infact, I find that pretty incomprehensible (sic).
That's why I was angry.. As I say man, I've studied it all in great detail. If I was to say "this is the reason that it happened" then I would say that it was because too many people showed up at a game they were asked not to.
Which hey, is pretty silly but it's done now. Mistakes happen, as humans we often make them. All we can do really is learn from those mistakes and move on, not try to blame it on any thing 20 years down the line.