Cavey wrote:
Mimi wrote:
Haha, I was only joking Myp. I've seen your 'reverse racism' thing before, and there's a whole rabbit hole of dictionary definitions to go down, but I'm not looking into what kind of authority 'the daily dot' is to see if they, or any other source, has the defining word.
You're a good chap, and I know you're working hard to make yourself better, even if I have reason to disagree with you.
Frankly Mimi you do seem to pick Myp up a lot re stuff like this, e.g. He's not being PC enough about X or Y.
That's because I love him. I genuinely do. He gave me away at my wedding and will always mean a lot to me. I don't know what you mean in regards to him not being PC enough: to me he is over-zealous in picking good people up for using wrong terms, when I think most of the time he knows they mean well. I think he does it for good reason, and I think for what he is trying to achieve it is good, but I think it sometimes comes close to calling people racist, when they are not, because they haven't devoted as many hundreds of hours to studying the subjects he is passionate about.
Myp, I say this to you straight, rather than in response to Cavey, but I'll never agree with you on the point of 'reverse' racism (what I'd think of as just racism), because I've been in too many scary situations where as a young white girl I was both threatened and twice attacked by people all the while calling me a white slut, or a little white bitch. Outnumbered in an attacks from people older than me, it's too strong a personal experience for me to think those people weren't racist and didn't single me out because I was a white girl walking alone, and that this would be thought of as not racist.
And I'm not so sure that the case in Bradford is that rare. At least three of the girls I knew in Burnley (including g both who I am still in touch with) had been abused by organised gangs of men from Pakistan. Both were white and said that it was white girls that were sought because they were easier to tempt with money, cigarettes, etc,
There may well be many incidents of Asian girls being abused in such a way, I have no experience of knowing anyone directly affected in those circumstances, but the case in Bradford is replicated in at least Burnkey and the refuge system and police know well that it exists as many of the abused girls come through that refuge.
Because it doesn't happen very often doesn't mean, in my personal opinion, that we shouldn't afford the same definition to the case as if white men were targeting young Asian girls in the same way. The adult men have the power in this situation, and their targets are young people if s certain racial background. I don't think being born white in a poor, deprived area should mean that these girls are denied a racial aspect of the case being investigated as part of the police/court/counselling work, and if it were me I wouldn't want somebody telling me that I wasn't afforded the right to state that is been the victim of a racially motivated crime based on the fact that I was white, but obviously that is my very personal feeling and one that it actually hurts me to hear people dismiss, for my friends, people I have known, and to a lesser extent in relation to my own experiences when I was younger and living in the big melting pot that is the Borough Of Brent.