Blucey wrote:
I'd sell them as is, as a whole lot, and take whatever I got. I'm on that Swedish Death Cleaning way of doing things. For me, getting rid is the main goal and the money is a bonus. I know they were Dale's passion but they're just magazines ultimately and the space they take up on the house will be more valuable to the family than the mags themselves.
My best mate died four years ago and left an entire home gym set up behind and his fiance didn't want to sell it for sentimental reasons. That's a room that their child could play in but instead it was an unused monument to his memory.
Then they moved and now it is all rusting in a lock up garage.
Just getting rid is so beneficial.
It must be so difficult though, so much of Dale’s personality is in those things. So much of what made him the person he was.
I’ve still got a limited edition Barbie that Rev Owen sent me. I love it, but it is just something I ‘store’ if I’m honest with myself. I’ve also got some toys and dolls that Dale sent and/or gave me.
The Barbie, especially, has some value. But when I do get it out to look at it makes me smile and feel, for just a second, that I’m getting a little hug,
I know it’s different from when you’ve got a whole house of things, and maybe you don’t need them all to feel that, but if something is sparking that feeling in you it can be hard to let go.